Is it possible? I don’t know, but I took some of my own knowledge — professional and otherwise — and wrote a small essay with some suggestions on the financial piece. You can read “Divorce Can be Taxing — Tips and Traps — by clicking here: I also encourage you to check out Divorce Resource Center of Rhode Island. The site — http://drcri.net/-- offers a wealth of resources, and is offering a seminar in late January called “Getting to a Healthy Financial and Emotional Divorce”. Couples may not agree on much — but they ought to at least share that goal — for themselves and their partners and families.
Rich, thanks for sharing some very valuable insight. I can say I have been there, done that. This is as much a statement about human nature as it is about the division of formerly blessed unions. Be they tax consequences or otherwise, your stories provide a cautionary tale for all.